The Better Relationship /Confident with Couples

For Therapists and Coaches who work with Couples

Stop Getting *Stuck* in Couples Sessions

13 focused audio episodes addressing the most common ....and most frustrating.... moments in couples work. Real clinical guidance, from a EFCT Supervisor.

Your couples clients say or do things that stop the session cold.

You've trained for this work. You know the theory. But in session when a couple is sitting in front of you looking to you for answers there are certain moments (a threat to divorce, a partner who won't stop criticizing, someone whose trauma hijacks every repair attempt) that can leave even experienced therapists at a loss for what to do next.

In Confident with Couples I take you through the most common couples session stuck points, give you my analysis, the overall goal, and the very next move I would make.

Do these sound familiar?

When I asked thousands of couples therapists what they encountered in session, here are just a few of the many things they say gets them stuck...

The couple whose hurt is too big to get past.

The couple who takes any expression of emotion as an attack

The couple who refuses to change until the other one does first

The couple who weaponizes religion

The partner that constantly criticizes

The couple where only one wants to be there

I want you to know — these moments are more doors to change than the brick wall they appear to be.

Hi, I'm Stephanie

I am a Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist and Supervisor. I have worked with and consulted on some of the most complex but rewarding couples cases and consider it a privilege to be able to help couples therapists become their most confident selves in the room with their clients. Your clients are looking to you for help - let me help you.

  • $37

Confident with Couples

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  • 15 files

I created Confident with Couples to provide you with what I use and teach for stuck moments with couples. Couples therapists across the internet shared with me their most common couples session frustrations are and in each episode I address these concerns and more. Listen on a walk, or between sessions - the episodes are brief enough to be easily digestible, but concentrated and tested to be effective.

Episodes

Each episode addresses a common stuck point a therapist wrote to me about. I answer their message with exactly what I would say if I they were sitting in front of me. I truly believe, you will find similarities in your own cases. The episodes are as follows:

01 - Welcome .mp3
  • 1 min
  • 1.3 MB
02 - "Even If I change they wont, so why should I?".mp3
  • 4 mins
  • 5.24 MB
03 - "I keep it in until I explode." .mp3
  • 5 mins
  • 5.58 MB
04 - "If I don't critcize they will never change.".mp3
  • 6 mins
  • 6.98 MB
05 - "Let's just get divorced" (And other empty threats).mp3
  • 6 mins
  • 7.62 MB
06 - "My hurt is too big to get past." .mp3
  • 6 mins
  • 7.79 MB
07 - "My Partner Dragged me Here".mp3
  • 3 mins
  • 3.37 MB
08 - "Their expression of emotion feels like an attack to me.".mp3
  • 6 mins
  • 7.66 MB
09 - The Couple that Intellectualizes Everything.mp3
  • 3 mins
  • 4.02 MB
10 - "My unrelated past trauma wont let me move past this.".mp3
  • 5 mins
  • 6.4 MB
11 - Religion Weaponized.mp3
  • 6 mins
  • 7.42 MB
12 - The Anxious Partner Who Needs to Tell "One More Story".mp3
  • 5 mins
  • 5.96 MB
13 - How to Validate One Partner Without Invalidating The Other.mp3
  • 4 mins
  • 4.19 MB
14 - Bonus...Phrases for In Session.mp3
  • 3 mins
  • 3.07 MB
15 - Conclusion.mp3
  • 2 mins
  • 1.91 MB

What you're getting:

Supervision-quality guidance, on your schedule.

Instant audio access

Download and listen anywhere — your commute, your lunch break, your office between sessions.

EFT-grounded guidance

Every episode is rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy — clinically tested, practically delivered.

Ready-to-use language

Bonus episode packed with actual phrases you can bring into session the same day.

No fluff, no filler

Unpolished and honest. Concentrated and real.

Ready to feel confident in session?

Get Confident with Couples Today

13 audio episodes covering every common sticking point in couples work — plus a bonus phrase guide for in-session use.

  • $37

Confident with Couples

  • Download
  • 15 files

I created Confident with Couples to provide you with what I use and teach for stuck moments with couples. Couples therapists across the internet shared with me their most common couples session frustrations are and in each episode I address these concerns and more. Listen on a walk, or between sessions - the episodes are brief enough to be easily digestible, but concentrated and tested to be effective.