Start Here (For EFCT & Couples Therapists)

You’re not lost. The EFCT path is just… not well marked.

If you love Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy but feel unsure how to turn trainings and supervision into real confidence (and eventually certification), you’re in the right place.

I’m Stephanie Cox, MS, LMHC — Certified EFCT therapist and Supervisor. I help EFCT & couples therapists move from:

“I'm interested in this model but I feel lost,”
to
“I know what I’m working on and where I’m headed.”

Below, pick the box that sounds most like you and I’ll show you your best next step.

Where Are You Right Now? 👇🏼

As clinicians we can hem and haw all day about our career aspirations, but you hold in your hands the power to take action that makes you a more effective, more confident, more profitable clinician, starting today. If you were to take inventory, where do you see yourself right now?

📍Extreme Newbie: EFCT Curious

You're a therapist who works with couples, you dabble in gottman, and know about EFCT but not enough to take the leap of committing to it. You need a foundational education to make an educated decision for your career.

Try these tools:

  • $5

EFCT Starter Pack

  • Bundle
  • 7 Products

For the EFCT Curious! Included: My EFCT Explained PDF, Stage 1-3 Comprehension Guides, The Efficient Certification Pathway Workbook AND “See-Me-Work” transcript. An entire session transcript, with in-line explanations of the EFT moves I’m doing (called the Tango). Don’t waste your time reading a million different AI articles trying to figure out what EFCT is... Grab this pack - a $75 value, for only $5!

  • Free email delivery

What is EFCT (Explainer)?

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  • 1 file

What is EFCT anyway? In this explainer guide I give you the run-down on what Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is, why it's considered the Gold Standard of Couples Therapy by the APA, what it can do for your practice, your career and your effectiveness as a couples therapist (and raises your rates)!

  • $37

Fast-Track EFCT: From Externship to Certification Roadmap

  • Course
  • 3 Lessons
  • Includes 1 additional product

Fast-Track EFCT is a 30–40 minute mini-workshop for EFCT/couples therapists who love the model but feel lost about certification. Learn an efficient path from Externship to certified, how to use supervision and taping intentionally, plus get a Supervision Skills & Session Tracker and bonus “See-Me-Work” transcript of an entire session with a Stage 1 couple early in their work.

Includes 1 additional product

  • Free email delivery

The Efficient EFCT Certification Pathway Guide

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  • 1 file

The Efficient EFCT Certification Pathway is a free guide for EFT therapists who love the model but feel lost. Get a clear, faster map from Externship to certification.

📍Newish: EFCT Knowledgable

You know enough EFCT to be using some of the techniques in session. Maybe you've attended a training, or even completed Externship or Core Skills but you're still in the "learning curve" era of applying this rich model to the point where you can see consistent results with your couples.

Try these tools:

  • $15

"See-Me-Work" Full EFCT Session Transcript

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  • 1 file

When I was a EFT newbie, all I wanted was to watch someone who knew the model well, to show me how THEY do the model with their couples. Now I have that for you!! In this transcript you will get to read a full session with a Stage 1 Couple. I provide in-line text explanations of what I am doing and when (what tango move, etc.) so that you can see our conversation, see my responses and see the model in action.

  • $35

The Stages Bundle

  • Bundle
  • 4 Products

This is the perfect "starter pack" bundle for EFCT Curious therapists or those new to the model. You get my EFCT Explainer fast sheet, and then my Stage 1, Stage 2 and Stage 3 Complete Comprehension Guides. These tools will explain what EFCT is in a nutshell and then lead you right into what it looks like in practice and why it is so effective for couples in therapy.

  • Free email delivery

(For Therapists) EFCT De‑Escalation Quick Guide for Couples Work

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  • 1 file

Therapists: If Stage 1 keeps slipping into content, grab my EFCT De-Escalation Quick Guide. Inside: how to spot a spiral, “catch the bullet” when criticism hides longing, tell protection from real vulnerability, build trust with high-conflict couples, and know when you’re ready for Stage 2—plus 10 phrases and 2 anchor moves you can use Monday.

  • $15

Validation Pack: 20 Scripts and Phrases to Slow it Down

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  • 1 file

Validation is crucial in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. Especially in Stage 1, and especially when we are working with high-conflict couples. Yet, validation can be hard to do in session because truth be told it is at times so slow. Here are 20 scripts and phrases you can use if you struggle to slow down and validate in sessions with your couples.

  • $7

Before you Begin Primer for Your Couples (and 45 Assessment Questions)

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Use this brief overview to prepare your clients for the type of work you are about to embark on. You can provide it in a handout or your intake documents - or verbally in the first session or consult. Use the included 45 Assessment Questions to gather crucial information about your clients dynamic, if they are right for the EFCT model, and what their pain points are so you can get started with confidence.

  • $150

Bundle: EFCT Couples Work Total Toolbox (Best Value)

  • Bundle
  • 7 Products

Bundle: EFCT Couples Work Total Toolbox (Best Value) - everything you need to run effective EFCT from first contact to consolidation. Includes a visual Stages & Steps map, De-Escalation Quick Guide, Before-You-Begin Primer + 45 assessment questions, Validation Pack (20 scripts), and Stage 1, Stage 2, Stage 3 + Special Considerations guides. Save prep time, de-escalate faster, and create lasting bonding events.

📍Trained but not Certified: You've Completed your Required Education but Need More Hand Holding

You’ve done the trainings and started supervision. Certification is a real goal, but the process feels foggy and slow. Your couples keep getting stuck. You may benefit from joining my next Supervision Pod.

Certification Supervision Pod
Small, time-limited, certification-oriented supervision

Best if you’re:

  • On the certification path and need supervision that actually moves you toward tapes & application

You’ll get:

  • A small cohort and ~8 ICEEFT-eligible supervision hours

  • Focus on Tango, Stage 1/2 work, and identifying “cert couples”

  • A clearer plan for what to tape and why

📍Application Agony: The Tapings and Application are Stressing you to the Max

Maybe you have recordings, maybe you need to refine them, but you’re staring at the ICEEFT application, trying to choose clips and write about your work without panicking. Apply for my application studio, where through a short course of sessions we get your application in the best place it can be for submission.

📍Needing More: 1-to-1 Comprehensive Support

You just need 1:1 help and you're tired of piecemail support that's slowing you down. If you want help auditing your process, and getting certified start to finish, and everything in between, apply for my EFCT Certification Accelerator.

Hi, I'm Stephanie and I'm just like you

A therapist who doesn't want to suck at her job

My name is Stephanie Cox, MS, LMHC. I am a Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist, Supervisor, business owner, author, educator, and mom. I opened the doors of my private practice in 2020 and held my first sessions via telehealth from my closet in my one-bedroom apartment during the Covid-19 pandemic. In the last 5 years I've grown my practice from those humble beginnings to a group practice 2-blocks from the ocean.

I've built the practice from nothing to consistent six-figure earnings and yet my best business decision was getting certified in EFCT.

EFCT is deep, beautiful, and demanding work. The certification process is, too.
Wherever you are—lost after Externship, slowly gathering hours, or nearly ready to submit—there’s a way for us to work together that respects your time, your finances, and your nervous system.

Choose the offer that fits where you are today. We’ll take the next step together from there.

Need tools for your couples?

Want ready-made resources to give your couples?

The EFCT Model is strictly experiential and these guides and resources are not meant for certification purposes but sometimes the reality is that our couples do not come with the pre-requisite emotional readiness to do the heavy lifting of emotional vulnerability and understanding.

These resources are meant to supplement personal growth and education for your clients. The main agent of change, however, is the experiential work of the EFCT Model.

Whatever stage you’re in, you don’t have to wander through EFCT alone. Pick one next step today, and we’ll walk the rest together.