The Stages Bundle

Stage 1 Comprehension Guide — a clear, clinician-friendly roadmap for EFCT de-escalation. Build alliance, map the negative cycle, access primary emotion, and reframe problems in attachment terms so partners fight the pattern—not each other. Includes prompts, assessment cues, safety checks, core interventions, and a readiness checklist so you know when it’s time to move from Stage 1 to Stage 2.

Stage 2 Comprehension Guide — a clinician-friendly roadmap for EFCT Steps 5–7. Build on de-escalation to access disowned needs, re-engage the withdrawer, and soften the pursuer. Learn heightening (RISSSSC), empathic conjecture, and safe enactments that turn inner experience into new interaction. Includes markers for change events, troubleshooting, and a clear map for the therapist.

Stage 3 Comprehension Guide + Special Considerations — your roadmap for EFCT consolidation. Help couples keep safety and connection while solving real problems, building rituals, and crafting a shared story of change. Includes preparation for graduation, therapist stems, trauma guidance, and Attachment Injury Resolution (AIR) steps, plus a clear exit checklist so gains last after therapy ends.

What is EFCT anyway? In this explainer guide I give you the run-down on what Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is, why it's considered the Gold Standard of Couples Therapy by the APA, what it can do for your practice, your career and your effectiveness as a couples therapist (and raises your rates)!